Who Do You Want to Be in the World?

What Betty White Reflects About Living a Meaningful Life

Do you have a role model?

Maybe not someone you want to be exactly, or whose career or life you want to replicate, but someone who reflects how you want to show up in the world. How you want to be experienced by others, and how you want to live your life.

For me, that person is Betty White.

Not because I want to be an actress or famous.

Not because she lived a full, healthy, vibrant life until almost 100 years old.

And it’s not because she made a lot of money (although… that wouldn’t hurt).

It’s because of who she was as a human.

What It Means to Love Life

What stands out to me most is how she lived — how she showed up in the world.

Everything about her made it clear that she was genuinely in love with life and people. 

She was playful and laughed easily. She didn’t take herself or life too seriously, but she was serious about the important things.

People who knew her often said the same things.

She made people feel seen.
She was witty and funny, but never mean. She laughed with people, never at them.
She treated everyone with the same warmth, kindness and respect, no matter who they were.

She experienced pain and disappointment like every other human and still chose optimism, humor, and gratitude. She didn’t let life harden her. And she didn’t let success or money change her heart.

If anything, it seemed to strengthen it.

There are very few people who make my heart smile the moment I see their face, but Betty White is one of them. When I see a picture of her or stumble on an old clip, I instantly smile. She was magnetic. 

And it makes me reflect, not on what I want to have in my life, but on how I want to live it.

Who You Choose to Be

Because at the end of the day, that’s what really matters.

Not the titles.
Not the bank account.
Not the résumé.

But how we loved.
How we treated people.
How fully we lived.

She was a class act.
Classy.

I imagine, when Betty reflected on her life, she was thinking, “That was one hell of a ride!” And that’s what I want for myself, and for the people I care about…and for you.

Not just to make it through life.
But to truly enjoy it.

To laugh.
To love people unconditionally.
To lead with kindness and optimism instead of fear.
To be serious about the things that matter and let the rest be lighter.

Think about it…
Who do you want to be in the world?

What would it look like if you were in love with life? 

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Nicole Comis is a Certified Executive Life Coach, helping driven professionals achieve bigger goals than they would on their own, step into their power, and create a life that truly fulfills them—inside and out. 

As a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) through the International Coach Federation (ICF) and a Master Coach of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Nicole combines traditional coaching, neuroscience, and powerful subconscious tools—including NLP, emotional release work, and hypnotherapy— to help her clients achieve incredible transformation both personally and professionally. 

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